Most people do not treasure what they have and thus they tend to take things for granted. Only when have they actually lose the treasure do they realise its value.
It almost always takes an outsider, to see what treasures a person are holding. Only outsiders can see things from a third person point of view, thus its easier for them to things happen from a neutral point of view.
Always treasure what you have, else you may regret it when its really gone.
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